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Destination Weddings 101

So, you're thinking about a destination wedding? The world is at your feet. Are you looking for the small private setting or does the big party suit your taste? Either way, a destination wedding can be for you. Destination weddings offer the opportunity to lengthen the happiest time of your life into several blissful days and nights, while sharing it with loved ones who have joined you for this special event. So if you should accept this voyage, here are some things to think about when envisioning your dream.

First, take time out to fantasize about what you want your day to be like. Are you looking for a romantic cruise, an island of rainforests and sugar-cane fields, snowy mountains, or mansions with sprawling plantations and the historic town squares of the Old South? Are you walking down a path of petals in the country, is there a ballroom full of guests drinking champagne and eating caviar, or are you poolside at a swank hotel or mansion? This is your day and it can be as grand or as private as you want it to be.

After you have decided upon your wedding vision, start the planning process early and with a good consultant. A good consultant can ensure that all the appropriate arrangements and paperwork have been completed, you're armed with an outlined itinerary, all details have been taken care of, and that you've stayed within your budget. They also can help you plan excursions, make reservations for car rentals and hotel accommodations, and even purchase transportation passes or show tickets. They are a valuable resource and can educate you on the city or country you plan to explore.

Ask a lot of questions and be very flexible! In areas not part of the U.S., there can sometimes be some odd rules or requirements. Some countries only allow foreigners to marry on weekdays and some may not allow ceremonies after sunset. Sometimes officiants are few and far between. So, if you want to plan a luau, serve alcohol, light candles, or drop flower petals, make sure it is a viable request!

If you're packing the whole gang, be sensitive to their pocketbooks. Tradition states that the groom or his family picks up the groomsmen tabs and the bride or her family picks up the bridesmaid tabs. The other guests will be bearing their own expenses. Your consultant can help you identify ways to maximize the investment for everyone. And, you may want to let your guests know that you're not expecting gifts.

Last, but not least, make sure to allow enough time before and after the big day to get ready and rest up. You've got a dream to experience and you don't want to miss any of it!

This article was contributed by Karen Hohlen.